After Sarah spent 1 year in Michigan State University, she fell in love with a guy and was about to go out on a date for the first time. She was a strict Christian so she was a bit worried. So she decided to call her grandmother to seek advice.
Her grandmother explained nicely, “Listen, let me tell you about what would happen in the date. He is going to try to kiss you; you are going to like that, but don’t let him do that.”
She continued, "He is going to try to feel your breast; you are going to like that, but don’t let him do that. He is going to try to put his hand between your legs; you are going to like that, but don’t let him do that.
Then the grandmother said, “But, most importantly, he is going to try to get on top of you and have his way with you. You are going to like that, but don’t let him do that. It will disgrace the family.”
With that bit of advice in mind, Sarah went on her date and could not wait to call her grandmother to report about it.
In the phone back to grandmother, Sarah told her grandmother that her date went just as the old lady said.
Sarah said, “Grandmother, I didn’t let him disgrace our family. When he tried, I turned him over, got on top of him and disgraced his family instead.”